via email:
"dear m.rose,
i was dating a guy for about 10 months, everything seemed to be going great, he was letting me keep things in his apartment and i met his best friends. we decided to take time apart for a little while which i thoroughly enjoyed. then, all of a sudden, he expressed interest in wanting to see me again, but only casually. but, i discovered, through a popular networking website of all places, that he is in a relationship with another girl, albeit an unattractive one! when i confronted him about it, he changed the subject and told me he wasn't trying to play games with me. what gives?
love,
never date an investment banker"
Banker hater- it's understandable that you're confused with Mr. Dolla Dolla Billz (investment bankers do make good money...) because he IS playing games with you. It's a typical douche move. Douche talks for 3 hours about how much of a douche he isn't...thus proving that he is in fact a douche (and fooling no one with his act). The mere fact that Dolla Billz has to say he's not playing games just incriminates him even more.
I think what's happening is that he wants his cake and filet mignon at the same time (you're the steak). Clearly his store-bought plastic-frosting cake girlfriend isn't enough for him, so he's going back to you to get a little mignon on the side. But what's this guy done to get all that goodness? Absolutely nothing from where I'm sitting. You deserve better.
The bottom line is that this guy isn't good enough for you. If he was, he wouldn't have another girlfriend at the moment- all his focus would be on you. You're the steak remember! Clearly he'd rather be with plastic frosting. Move on.
i was dating a guy for about 10 months, everything seemed to be going great, he was letting me keep things in his apartment and i met his best friends. we decided to take time apart for a little while which i thoroughly enjoyed. then, all of a sudden, he expressed interest in wanting to see me again, but only casually. but, i discovered, through a popular networking website of all places, that he is in a relationship with another girl, albeit an unattractive one! when i confronted him about it, he changed the subject and told me he wasn't trying to play games with me. what gives?
love,
never date an investment banker"
Banker hater- it's understandable that you're confused with Mr. Dolla Dolla Billz (investment bankers do make good money...) because he IS playing games with you. It's a typical douche move. Douche talks for 3 hours about how much of a douche he isn't...thus proving that he is in fact a douche (and fooling no one with his act). The mere fact that Dolla Billz has to say he's not playing games just incriminates him even more.
I think what's happening is that he wants his cake and filet mignon at the same time (you're the steak). Clearly his store-bought plastic-frosting cake girlfriend isn't enough for him, so he's going back to you to get a little mignon on the side. But what's this guy done to get all that goodness? Absolutely nothing from where I'm sitting. You deserve better.
The bottom line is that this guy isn't good enough for you. If he was, he wouldn't have another girlfriend at the moment- all his focus would be on you. You're the steak remember! Clearly he'd rather be with plastic frosting. Move on.
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